A covariance with no parameter
A family before a fit
A regression's coefficients and one correlation can be maximised together. Replace the correlation with an estimated covariance and there is nothing left for "jointly" to mean — until a set of covariances is named, and the set turns out not to contain the truth.
The plug-in and the maximum
A tapered covariance estimate sits five and a half log-likelihood units below the maximum of the likelihood it is substituted into. Four fifths of that is what the optimiser would have found if nothing were missing.
Nothing in the fit picks the width
A wider band is always a better fit, and it is better by about one unit of log-likelihood a lag — which is the order of what a criterion charges for a parameter. Three defensible rules choose widths a factor of three apart.
What fitting them together buys
Maximising over the coefficients and the covariance together beats the two-step under one of four dependences and ties under the other three. It is the one the band family contains, and the likelihood said so before any coefficient was compared.